It's always been something I wonder about. How do you go through life with it? I mean there's people who trust everyone and get betrayed and there's people who don't trust anybody and can never really develop a ''true'' friendship with anyone. Of course, You always trust your family in the worst of times, but what about people that don't really have a family to turn to? That's when it becomes not a choice, but a necessity almost in a way, to trust people. There's all different kinds of people out there in this world. many personalities, many traits, many actions, that lets you know what kind of a person they are.There are plenty of people who i trust and don't trust.
What about when it pertains to relationships? Trust is essentially everything in a relationship. What happens if two people are not very trusting in each other? Well then there's a problem.I don't know why it is, but i have a very hard time trying to trust people, ''let them in''. But there's a balance. You want to be honest and trustful but not be taken advantage of. It's like they say, ''Trust is like a vase... Once it's broken it can be fixed, But the vase will never be the same again.''
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I completely agree with this. Most girls have an older sister to look up to and talk to when they have something on their mine, so they turn to them when they need them but I do not have an older sister so I turn to my bestfriends and most of the time they have betrayed me. Trusting someone is the hardest thing you can do because someone can be one person around you and a totally different person when you are not around. I think that you should take your time with trusting people and choose your friends wisely because not everyone thinks the way you do, they might just be your friend to get information out of you then just forget about you.
ReplyDeleteI never thought of trust as a decision, but what you said is true. I think trust just gradually happens over time. You have to follow your instincts and decide if a person is worth trusting. To completely trust someone with no limits is difficult. I only fully trust three people in my life, besides my family.
ReplyDeleteTrust is one of those things that can make or break anything. People should pay attention to actions rather than words when it comes to trust. Than again, people are all hypocrites and we ourselves can't be trusted. Trust is relevant so we must choose wisely. When it comes down to it, it can be naturally done.
I agree with this and I have a hard time completely trusting someone also. I don't think completely trusting someone is necessary to have a good relationship with a person. Just because you don't tell someone every little detail about yourself does not mean that you do not trust them. I think trust is about believing that someone will be there for you rather than them knowing every little piece of information about you. I don't think trusting everyone all the time is worth it, but there are moments when it is. If you know a certain person is going to be in your life for a long period of time, then you could take the steps to see if you can trust them, but otherwise I don't think it matters so much.
ReplyDeleteTrust is a very scary thing, since it is often about gut instinct more than any actual facts you may have.
Trust is an essential part of our everyday lives. It develops through actions that represent our individual personalities. Humans are too complex to be judged simply, therefore they can never be read fully, even by the best psychologists. As one grows, he begins to understand the simpler parts of the human mind, and without knowing it, he begins to judge and categorize people. This causes them to trust certain groups of people, who are bundled up together for their personal morals and actions. Also, trust is based on feelings and logic, therefore it cannot be proportioned towards people equally. Generally, I think that people trust others in hopes of affection and opportunities, and when people don't trust each other, it is because they are simply trying to defend themselves. In my opinion, trust is one of the few good aspects in this world.
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